How do you define if you have had a boyfriend?

im just wondering what i can "count" as a boyfriend and dating and what doesn't





this is the closest expreience i've had to having a boyfriend but i dont know if it really counts: i went out w/ a guy for like 5 months, maybe? we never kissed or went out on dates or anything, we just kinda enjoyed each other's company while we were at school...we e-mailed each other every day and iknew things about him that no one else did, like how he likes stuffed animals and did gymnastics, but that's the same thing that could happen w/ a good friend. i had to kinda force him to take me to homecoming, we just met there didn't go out to dinner or anything and he broke up w/ me b/c he said that i didn' thave enough freedom to be able to do real boyfriend/girlfriend stuff...





if i meet another guy, and i'd like to be his girlfriend or somefink, can i honestly say that he's my first b/c he would be the first guy that i would kiss? did i really have a boyfriend already or just a semi-relationship?

How do you define if you have had a boyfriend?
did the first guy call you his girlfriend? He didn't sound like he was your boyfriend though....but then again, I had a friend who she dated for years and called each other bf/gf and they never even held hands. so...I wouldn't consider him a bf, no.
Reply:You had a weird friendship. Definitely no boyfriend.
Reply:a kiss does not decide whether a guy is your first boyfriend or not. If he broke up with you because you dont have the freedom to be able to do real boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, then it sounds like this guy was your first boyfriend.
Reply:Sweetheart, you had a friend. Kissing seals the deal for a boyfriend! Trust me! Oh, and hold off on the sex and when you do, make sure you use condoms! They'll save your life!
Reply:I would not consider him a boyfriend, so yes he would be your first