Monday, May 24, 2010

How will u define CHEATING?

How will u call it cheating? is it necessary a sexual act? a date with somebody else? fantasizing someone? c'mon..tell me

How will u define CHEATING?
Once you touch another in a romantic or sexual way.
Reply:Cheating- To deceive by trickery; swindle: To deprive by trickery; defraud: To mislead; fool: To elude; escape: To act dishonestly; practice fraud: o violate rules deliberately, as in a game: To be sexually unfaithful: Thats enough definitions for cheating. Thats what it means, if its not what it says it is in the dictionary, than its not cheating.
Reply:if you wouldn't do it with your spouse sitting next to you, or would be ashamed or upset if your spouse heard you say it... its cheating.





Usually its something to do with sex (physical, cyber, phone, etc) but it can be emotional too. Spending time with someone, when you should be with your spouse.
Reply:Cheating is doing anything that is similar to what you'd do with someone you are in a relationship. Going out for intimate dinners, sex, late night conversations, sexually charged talks. Etc.
Reply:If you are married and you flirt with someone else, or have relations with someone else, both are cheating.
Reply:I think cheating depends on every couple. From my point of view fantasizing is so not cheating. If you see a hot celebrity. at a concert or some where else how can you not fantasize. Cheating is anything you would know hurt or would want to hide from you partner. This can also mean dating if you try to hide it or its some one your partner dislikes.
Reply:Cheating is not a hard, fast rule with everyone. Most commonly, engaging in sexual behavior with someone else is cheating. Some consider talking intimatley with someone else is cheating. Fantasies are fantasies and should remain that....it is when someone takes the steps to act on the fantasies that could make them cheating.
Reply:to be honest, nothing is cheating! everything you described is natural. its has been there since thousand years.





everyone is doing that and it will be on. married men goes to strip clusbs right? even if they dont have sex. anyway nothing is cheating :)
Reply:No, a penis doesn't have to enter a vagina for cheating to occur...but then fantasies aren't cheating either (they are just fantasies).





If you have done something or said something to another person, who is not your significant other, and you feel you have to keep that from them or it could damage your relationship, then you have probably cheated. it could be physical contact, it could be email or internet chatting, it could be things said on the phone. If the communication was intimate or pornographic in nature and you wouldn't want it done to you by your partner, then it was probably cheating.





Having fantasies or looking at porn mags, pics online (of strangers), or porn moves isn't cheating....even though some women feel very insecure over it.
Reply:Nandina has got it nailed.
Reply:I'd saying anything physical for sure. Until something physical happens, nothing is cheating in my opinion, but its different for every person.





But hugging and kisses on the cheek are alright.
Reply:dating two ppl at once, while neither one knows about the other one. if a person has a boy/girlfriend and is secretly with another boy/girlfriend then they are cheating.
Reply:mmmh a date would be cheating if it's meant to be an intimate date---(as if the two are there with the idea of getting together at some point)





fantasize is not really cheating unless it makes you forget or think less of your partner--





---and sexual acts----even if they are like 3 secs long(yes even a peck on the lips) would be considered cheating on my books
Reply:cheating does not necessarily have to be a physical act to be considered. cheating can be emotional as well. Having strong feelings for another person besides your boyfriend/girlfriend can be harmful.If you dont know whether you a cheating or not, ask yourself if you would want your boyfriend/girlfriend doing what you are doing and would it hurt you?
Reply:I wouldn't call flirting cheating...that would not bother me but it means I can do it too. Anything beyond that as in a date or kissing or basically anything hands on would be cheating to me.
Reply:I don't personally think you need sex to have cheating.





When you give another person something you are unwilling to give your spouse that is cheating.





Fantasizing. Well. Everyone does that.....





cez
Reply:If you hide it from your significant other because they would be hurt or angry if they knew you were doing it, it's cheating.
Reply:I would say all of the above, minus the fantasizing. No matter who you are with, they will always fantasize......that's just human.
Reply:Cheating is a like the scientific method!


It all begins with theobservation and hypothesis, so basically it means that it starts with the sight and thought.


Then the back ground info ( planning to cheat) and the experiment (cheating).





The best bet is to ask God to help you as soon as you start having thoughts.
Reply:i would say blatant flirting or anything past that. Basically anything that you wouldnt feel comfortable with your partner doing with someone else
Reply:I define it as having a sexual and/or romantic relationship without prior knowledge AND permission of the other person you are already involved with in an established relationship. Yes, it is wordy. Mainly because I would not consider certain alternative relationships as cheating. Such as the nature of the word cheating, someone is attempting break the rules of the relationship to achieve a sexual and/or romantic goal.
Reply:i think that cheating is both a sexual act and a date with somebody else. the signs of a guy cheating on u is: if he don't pay no mind to u anymore and if he stays out later than usual.
Reply:anything more than just a casual conversation or friendship is cheating.
Reply:Well a date yes, sexual stuff yes, fantasizing no its just thoughts!

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